As someone who absolutely loves writing, it’s only natural that some of my biggest pet peeves surround spelling and grammatical mistakes.
Yes, I am the Grammar Police.
Errors such as these seem to spring off of a written page or cause me to cringe upon hearing them. I know that I am definitely not perfect when it comes to English, but I would certainly appreciate it if someone pointed things out to me that needed correction. In that spirit, I’ve compiled a list of the dozen mistakes I see or hear most often.
Drum roll, please…
#1- Confusing “lead” with “led”
I put this one first because it drives me the craziest. The word lead can be pronounced two different ways- “leed” and “led”. The confusion arises in the context of the second pronunciation. When lead is pronounced “led”, it is a chemical element, as in lead pencils, unleaded gasoline, lead poisoning, etc. It is not the past tense of lead (leed). I see this mistake more and more often. In fact, I’ve now seen it several times in magazines and newspapers. Where are the editors?!
The past tense of lead is led.
Examples:
One thing led to another.
She led the horse to water.
He led me to believe that he was going.
Got it? 🙂
#2- Using “seen” instead of “saw”
This is another one that people get confused when it comes to past tense- in this case, the past tense of see. The past tense of see is saw. Seen is to be used in the past perfect, present perfect, and future perfect tenses only.
Examples:
I saw it already.
Not…
I seen it already.
But…
I have seen it already.
#3- Saying “ax” instead of “ask”
Ugh…I can feel myself tensing up. One of my daughters says this all the time, and it drives me bonkers! Here is a common conversation between the two of us:
Daughter: But, Mom! I axed you already!
Me: No, you didn’t ax me…you asked me. If you axed me, I’d be dead or seriously injured.
Daughter: (eye roll) Mom!!
Please…just say it with me, “Assssk.”
Easy, right?
#4- Saying “brung” instead of “brought”
This is another common mistake by my little perpetrator who likes to ax me.
It is not bring, brang, brung.
It is bring, brought, have brought.
K?
#5- Using “these ones” instead of “these”
When referring to something specific, such as what earrings you like, it isn’t necessary to say, “I like these ones.” Using the word these already signifies that you are talking about something particular, so it isn’t necessary to add ones.
#6- Overuse of the word “been”
This may be a local thing because it is usually something I hear from a lot of school kids and some adults around here, but I figured I’d list it anyway just in case. For some reason, people in my city like to add the word been to practically everything they say.
Examples:
I been doing that already.
I been going there.
I been walking there.
This falls under the same category as seen. If you really want to use been, you’ve got to add have, has, or, had.
I have been doing that already.
I have been going there.
I have been walking there.
Now that that’s cleared up…
#7- Using “run” as the past tense of “run”
Don’t laugh, but the first time I noticed people saying this was during a “Finding Bigfoot” episode. Hey, we all need our fluff, right?
Anyhoo…
One of the witnesses said something to the effect of, “We seen it standing there, so we run away.” (I know…a double no-no. Why does this bother me so much? I need help…)
Since I already addressed saw/seen, I’ll overlook that and focus on run. Although that was the first time I noticed anyone use it that way, I see it all the time now.
Easy fix- past tense of run is ran.
We saw it standing there, so we ran away.
Doen’t that sound so much better? (or is it just me??)
#8- Their, There, They’re
This is something that we’ve all learned in school, but for some people it really can be confusing. In light of that, I’ll just add some examples of how to use them:
Their house is the one on the corner.
There are three mints left.
She works over there.
They’re (as in they are) headed to the beach.
#9- Your/You’re
This is similar to the aforementioned example in that it is just one of those things that we all learn but can still be confusing. The easiest way to tell the difference between the two of these is this: If you can substitute “you are” then use you’re. Otherwise, use “your”.
Easy peasy.
#10- Spelling Khan Academy “Kahn Academy”
I know, I know. This is different because I’m talking about one specific name, but I had to list it because it’s another one that makes me shake my head. So many times I’ve run across posts where Khan Academy was spelled Kahn Academy, even on really popular blogs or websites. I’m no expert on the internet, but to me it really brings down your credibility if you are misspelling the names of major websites when it is easy to double check those things.
Just saying.
#11- Saying “don’t” instead of “doesn’t”
This is one of those errors that I hear more often than I read, but I hear it an awful lot.
Examples:
She don’t want to go. (wrong)
She doesn’t want to go. (right)
Again, if you’re not sure which one to use, break apart the contraction to either “do not” or “does not”.
Simple.
#12- “I/She/He/They” and “Me/Her/Him/Them”
Last but not least…
This is one that even gives uptight me a pause sometimes. The rules are very easy, but sometimes when speaking we don’t want to stop to analyze what we’re saying, so we’ll come out saying something like, “Her and I went to the movies.”
Always remember to group these pronouns together just like I did above- I/She/He/They and Me/Her/Him/Them. If you’re going to use one pronoun from the group, they’ll all come from that group.
In the cases of multiple pronouns when you’re not really sure which ones to use at all, take away one of them to see which one sounds best with only one pronoun.
Examples:
Is it…
He threw the ball to she and I.
or…
He threw the ball to her and me.
I know this is an easy one, but the point is this- take out the she and her to decide which sentence sounds better. Then add them back after you decide.
So there you have it. I realize that the vast majority of you are probably thinking that I’m preaching to the choir, but if I even help one person with one of these, that’s a good thing! And actually, I think I’m going to print this out for my kids…especially you-know-who.
So what do you think? Do these things drive you crazy, too, or do you think I’m just wound too tight? Do you have any to add? I’ll be waiting to hear from you!
I actually have issues with some of these, too. I don’t consider myself a grammer expert, but I have been known to interrupt someone speaking to fix something like this before.
Also, when it comes to writing, for me some of these can be so distracting because I actually need to atop and process what’s happening/supposed to be happening. 🙂
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I’m no expert, either, but I find myself correcting my husband all the time. I’ve gotten much better at not doing that to other people, but it’s so hard. Sometimes I feel like I’m going to burst from holding it in!
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Yes, I totally get this! 🙂
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Thanks. Will be sharing with my classes through the rest of the week. 🙂
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You’re welcome. And thank you for sharing!
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Shelly, I’m a Grammar Nazi, big time!!
In eighth grade, I red lined all my boyfriend’s love letters, and sent them back to him for revision!! So much for THAT romance!!
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Lol. When my kids were still in school, I MAY have corrected a couple of letters sent home by their teachers!
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lol!! If it was one of mine, I would have sent you a thank you note!
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All of these grammar mistakes should have been corrected in grammar school. What is happening to our English grammar? Texting, laziness, rap, and just plain ignorance. Ugh.
Don’t forget “lie, lay” ; “rise, raise.”
He threw the ball to she and I.
He threw the ball to her and me.
“I know this is an easy one, but the point is this- take out the she and her to decide which sentence sounds better.”
It’s not which sounds better; it is about the objective case and the nominative case.
“She” and “I” are used in the nominative case.
I am a Grammar Nazi.
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Yes, you are right about the objective and nominative case- I just figured that it would be easier for those who don’t know what they are to listen for which sounds better.
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AAAGGGGHHH! Fingernails on chalkboard!
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Yes, exactly!
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I’d add “who” & “whom,” but I should probably just give up on that one as a lost cause… 😉
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I thought about adding that in with the other pronouns, but I’ll probably do a second post like this in the future!
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Thank you for this much-needed grammar/spelling PSA! Oh, if only it could be required reading for the entire world. 😉 Stopping by from Friday Frivolity!
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Lol. I wish! Thanks for stopping by. 🙂
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Enjoyed the lessons and you gave me some great reminders to tuck away for the next time I am writing:) Thanks!
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Now if only someone would write about punctuation…I could use some help with that!
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I am a grammar Nazi too, but the only person I actually correct is my 8 year old. Thanks for sharing on #FridayFrivolity
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I don’t correct anyone other than my husband and kids, but it’s so hard not to! Thanks for hosting. 🙂
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Love this! I attended the grammar policy academy as well. I tend to “edit” everything I read, including my town’s newspaper where the grammar is atrocious!
Thanks for the refresher course!
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I know! I wonder if our local newspaper even HAS an editor!
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Suppose-ably is my grand annoyance, but #8 is a close second. Thanks for sharing at the #ThisIsHowWeRoll Link Party
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Yes! That’s another one that’s like nails on a chalkboard! I WILL be doing a follow-up post in the future because there are so many I didn’t get to. 🙂
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My pet peeve is “Where’r you at”. I want to shake the person using it and yell “Where are you”. I have even, when politely correcting someone have them respond “Yeah, where are you at”. Sigh…….
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So frustrating, isn’t it?
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I agree with you completely! I still struggle sometimes on that last one myself. It can be tricky sometimes. As a former French minor, my pet peeve is when people say or write, “Wallah!” It is “Voila!” It literally means, “There it is!”
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I’ve never seen that, but it would annoy me, too!
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The one that has been getting me is people using “apart” and “a part” interchangeably. I see on Facebook groups all the time things like, “Thank you for letting me apart of this group.” Drives my batty. (visiting from Tuesday Talk)
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Yes, that drives me crazy, too!
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Similar to “axing” — I absolutely hate when people say “acrost”. The word across has no T, how is this even a thing?? Makes my ears bleed…
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Yes! My old dance teacher used to say that. I totally forgot about that!
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I’m a bit of a grammar nazi myself. Agree with all 10 of yours! Thanks for sharing this post at Booknificent Thursday on Mommynificent.com this week! Always a pleasure to have you.
Tina
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There will be a sequel!
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HAHA, I hear ya! i sometimes get irritated when my 4 year old speaks wrong english, I know, I know, he has years of learning ahead…but still! how hard is it to say “I heard that” instead of “I hear-ed that!” lol!
#practicalmondays
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I know. Today my 8 year old said “catched” instead of “caught” and I was like, no! no!
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Hi RedHead Mom,
Congratulations, your post won the Inspire Me Monday Linky Party! You are being featured on my blog tomorrow!
Yay!
Janice
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Yay! Thank you so much!
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